Love if you don't realize is a destructive force. Love pits you in a false reality where everything seems perfect. The false reality makes you into a hypocrit where only you and your love exists. The belief it's only you and your love, ruins everything around you. A disconnection from your friends is one example. You only pay attention to whom you love. Your friends don't matter anymore. I, myself got this destructive force put on me. After it happened to me i'm seeing those who are in the same place. I want to help but that gesture of help ruins the friendship that already would soon break. My instincts do tell me to watch and that what i listen to. The maturity of love is what moves you away from these actions.