I come back from a quick getaway from what i call reality. Be stupid for a little bit, get some air, chill with close friends. I get home and sit back to stare at our world through the eyes of a computer screen. As easy as looking at one thing someone wrote it could lead someone to be extremly lets say...ticked? Well once reading this i just started noticing my anger towards people who claim to be "mature" but actually they could be the most immature people you could find. A dictionary meaning to both mature and immature taken from dictionary.com.
Mature- "fully developed in body or mind, as a person"
Immature- "emotionally undeveloped; juvenile; childish"
As you already see i'm directing my attention to the mental, physcological and emotionally development of someone. It's understandable when a person is young of course but when a person is an adult? Is that even acceptable? To some being serious alone is mature but that doesn't mean shit. Your serious with everything you say. You say you like games. Your fucking serious about that. Your not serious when you're a compulsive liar and doesn't have the balls to say they are. So what makes me soo ticked off about immature people? Shouldn't I just mind my own damn business? Well you kinda can't when it's happening in front of you.
Lets start with some things I hate about it. First, the childish ways to solve problems. By childish ways to solve problems what examples could i give. The immature belief that objects aka gifts would satisfy someone so much that their problems would be a thing of the past. I'll name one example for each. Second, a man (adult) shouldn't gossip like a jr high girl. Holy shit how much would that piss you off when they jump to conclusions and what they say turn out retarded. The outcome may of been correct, but the initial reason for that outcome could've never been so wrong. Yet people would believe that shit. A lesson i learned, if you ever want to spread shit around, never ever jump to conclusions and always know the fucking facts. When shit is spread around people tend to believe the first thing said. Once you try to tell the truth the damage has been done. You are fucked. I know this is gossip. Girls do it but men do not. We keep our cool, get the fucking truth, then fall into a conlclusion that is reasonable, and then getting your view forced out by someone.
An immature person....can you trust them? No you cannot. Initially they may seem like a person to talk to but after you notice then BAM brick wall. You just got fucked by that person because they tell every fucking person every fucking thing you talk about.
The question may arise to the reader, "buddy, to you how the fuck do you define mature?" Well, a person able to think deep enough to tell them straight fact to their face. When in a time of sorrow, you know that childish beliefs won't help a situation. You don't betray your friends. You act like a friend. What do I emphasize most about maturity? The ability to fucking realize what really happening in your life. The damage or repair of your actions. The full effect of everything that you do. To actually know that you are a living being knowing that eventually you will die. During that time your saviour your life. Now after saying something about life i would like to comment on one thing. People who committed suicide, didn't realize the full effect or damage they would soon cause once they kill themselves. They didn't mature. People who have attempted and lived through it has something to move on from. And that point in your life should be the first stepping stone into maturity. Actually a theory may come from this. When all hope is lost and you believe that, it would the a stepping stome into maturity. But that only applies to some. In my opinion the main thing into becoming a mature person is self realization. Learning the lessons in every event in your life would make those themes and common moral make an effect on your life.
Well, continuing the rant. Basically the juvenile behaviour of some pisses the shit out of me. You cannot talk serious with them without them laughing at something so serious. Or even them being concerned of getting lied to when the situation is so much deeper than stuff like that. It's so immoral. The fact i can think more fucking maturly then someone much older than me. It's retarded.
Monday, September 3, 2007
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